CHEATING IS NOT OKAY!
i had a friend who was once advised by her mom’s friend that well ‘ all men cheat and now that she was getting married , she must learn to accept it!
cheating is not okay. all men do not cheat. all women do not cheat. you should not be in a committed relationship if you think cheating is not a big issue!
ALL WOMEN DO NOT WISH TO RUN TO THE ALTAR IMMEDIATELY!
…in fact several women are commitment-phobes! so…just because we’re in a relationship with you doesn’t mean we want to get married tomorrow!…you still have to woo us, propose to us and then….. we have to say ‘yes!’
GETTING MARRIED WILL SOLVE EVERYTHING!
the first year of marriage is the roughest…once you weather that..it gets easier…but definitely DO NOT think that marriage will solve problems…in fact there will be so many things that crop up about your partner; it will only add to grievances/ issues you already had…. so fix the problems and kinks….then decide on a date and then get married! fix problems first!
DATING IS FUN FOREVER!
…it is for a bit… it is incredible and a high….but there;s nothing better than knowing you HAVE A DATE , every day any day! AND YOU CHOSE HIM/ HER!
I MUST BE COMPLETELY HONEST….ABOUT EVERYTHING!
…Tell your partner about the important stuff….medical stuff, some past girl friends/ boy friends….but know when your just saying things to hurt your partner or put him/her down. deal with some stuff on your own…you’re not perfect….your partner knows that…just make sure your telling them things that are relevant to your current relationship and not something to make them feel bad about themselves!
MARRIAGE IS A COMPROMISE!
if you’re using the word compromise then…you want to seriously reconsider your relationship…whatever you are giving up to be with your partner should be not something that important that you think it as ‘compromising’ on something!…marriage must make you add to your talents not subtract them!
LOVE IS ALL ABOUT THE DRAMA!
sure drama is wonderful…but if all you are doing is crying and pining….then GET OUT! love is about the laughter and fun. it’s about giggling and cuddling…it’s happy, it’s safe,it’s light!
HE HIT ME BUT HE WAS REALLY SORRY!
GET OUT! NOW! he needs help … abusers always try and woo their ‘prey’ ( and i use this word to give you an idea of who you are to him) back…! so get out! he needs to get help! stop being his punching bag! BUT YOU NEED TO GET OUT NOW!
KIDS WILL MAKE THE MARRIAGE STRONGER
not necessarily…if your marriage has problems …fix them first before you bring in a child…having a child will only add responsibilities and problems don’t disappear -they need to be dealt with! don’t try and make an infant your shrink….! work your problems out , then start a family!
…do write in with some of your own 101 advice or even issues…let’s blog…talk about it!
15 thoughts on “relationship 101 ( fact, fiction and complete myths!)”
What about she hit Me ! I love you
what about– i will HIT YOU! …. i love you!
what about- when both say we hit each other….
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